Your Options

It has been said that conflict is inevitable, but combat is optional

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If you are considering divorce, the most important thing you need to know is that how you choose to divorce can have a greater impact on your life and your family than just about any other choice you make. 

For years, the knee-jerk advice given to people considering divorce was to call the toughest divorce lawyer they knew and heed their advice. By doing so, they kick-started a process which pit them and their spouse against each other in fierce conflict. I know, because for many years I was one of those lawyers leading my clients into that battle.

What I came to learn was that the traditional model which makes spouses into adversaries is just one of several choices that are available. And that for many people, the “battle” paradigm was not only unnecessary, but contrary to their goals.

Explore your options

Want to know a secret about conflict?

You get to choose how you want to resolve it.

I encourage you to explore and consider the various options available and choose the one that best reflects your personal values and goals.

The choice is Yours to make

Why you need to study your options carefully and why it matters. 

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